Nah I was neither just a man who got along with everyone and who no one messed with because I had a reputation (meaning you didn't want to mess with me). And I was fairly successful with women was with a pair of sisters throughout high school which was fun.
I think we have different understandings of what successful with women means. Also Casanovas aren't alphas. Alphas, if you believe in that sort of thing are leaders (an alpha wolf is the male in charge of the pack, not the one that goes from pack to pack f_ck_ng the female wolves). They don't pump and dump, they're heads of households. Both women and other men depend on them. Casanovas on the other hand are anything but dependable. The lingo just doesn't fit.