Why do we love those who are bad for us? How to let go?

I have had a bit of a rocky history with a girl...

When I met her, I thought she was perfect and ended up being my first love...

So her true colors started coming out, I realized she was not so good as I first thought...

But the love was still there...

Logically she is not right for me, I need to respect myself and move on... but my heart won't let me...

Even if she is manipulative, cheats on me, talks to other guys, is dishonest, doesn't respect what I say...

I realized I still love her, and would marry her despite everything...

Right now our relationship is "off"

I really don't know why I keep going back...

Do I need more confidence? More self respect? Or does true love conquer all?

She is the only girl I have been with in my life, and other girls don't want me... So she might be my only chance?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Move on, she she treats you like a door mat because she can. She will not be your only chance I promise! You do need to work on your self esteem so that you recognize that you deserve so much better! Do not settle for less than you are worth and you are worth the best life has to offer :-)

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What Girls Said 1

  • Heck no. Tell her you love her and you want her to respect you

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