I don't get why he's acting intersted considering how different we are, he's the rich handsome confident type of guy and I'm just eh. At first I thought he was going to stop talking to me but he still does.
- Has many pictures with different girls (from all around the world) in his arms and kissing him/ hugging him - These girls comment a lot and send him hearts and stuff -... BUT I told him a few months ago that I never had a real boyfriend and I'm not into the kind of lifestyle he has (parties, many partners, fooling around etc) and he didn't believe me at first then he said he was too corrupted for me (jokingly).
But surprisingly he stilk talks to me and even asked me on a date a few days ago since we're in the same city rn. I don't want my judgment to be clouded by the fact that find him attractive , fun to talk to and charismatic 😐
I mean I don't know it could go either way but personally I wouldn't advise getting involved with him if he's how you describe. I have a sense about these things and I just get a not really a good vibe about it lol but I don't get a necessarily bad one either.
I mean there is no harm if you want to make sure and go on a date with him and see how it goes go for it I could be totally wrong, but if you get involved with him, be wary. And think long term is this actually a guy you can trust especially when you go back to France, is he going to try to change you, would he make a good father, role model, husband all that jazz.
Also it's not at all hard to see why he's interested in you despite the already stated differences I guess it's up to you to decide what you want to do, risk or try. Just remember like all people like him just because he's fun and captivating and all that now does not mean he'll make something good long term.
Considering we're very similar culturally you may have a similar experience. I've seen this go two ways. The guy loves female attention and tends to show it off. He befriends plenty of women who he flirts with for "fun" and does not intend to develop any feelings or relationships. He will eventually settle down with the women who he speaks to the most, who is obvious to those around him and everyone would see it coming. The other way is when the man just likes to fool around with plenty of women. He contacts all of them frequently and it gets quite sexual after a month or two. It can be easy to tell the two apart.
Just what I've seen "party type guys" do around here... Plus I'm buddies with some of em they let me know what they're planning.
Well you're attractive so its very possible that he's interested in you despite the fact your lifestyle is different. However, there's no way to know whether he is just interest in having sex with you vs being interested in being in a relationship with you.
It's fun and everything But computability I remember one time I was watching one of my favorite movie with her and she couldn't get what's fascinating about it Then I knew this relationship gonna end Not cause of the movie off course But it showed me how different we are You are already seeing that and it's clear to you, so don't lose much for a little fun, you say you didn't have boyfriend before , don't lose that ,
He could be interested in you, but don't expect him to stop partying/drinking completely. If you want to have a relationship with him you have to accept who he is. That doesn't mean you have to tolerate cheating ofc.
"... and I'm just eh..." you are beautiful and kind person i don't know what guy wouldn't want you :) And he is maybe talking to you because you are different then him. All he knows is parties and fun with girls and alcohol. You are non of that and that is attractive and he wants to know what he might get from you. Give him a chance but be careful as you said maybe he is a player.
Just get to know him. Even if you're not right for each other, there's no harm in getting to know one another a little better, you may find some common ground. You don't have to be the same for things to work out!