... everybody loses his mind.
Most Helpful Girl
To me this is only an issue when the girl is a minor, when any person is a minor really. In first year of high school a close friend of mine was really into this guy who was 12+ years older than her (she was still a minor), and he occasionally worked for our school. And the creepy thing was just that we always wore school uniforms and all so its not like she would look like she's older than she is. And they went on dates and kissed but thats as far as I could let the two go because he was starting to ask for sex as well and about "taking her virginity".
Now since this wasn't in a western country it wasn't really frowned upon or illegal but the school still couldn't know about it so clearly it was still wrong on his part, but I did mostly get mad at her though and lectured her constantly why she shouldn't fuck him.
But anyways everyone has different reactions to the situation, I go batshit no matter who asks (unless the two are adults then its entirely up to them what they wanna do).0
Most Helpful Guy
LOL my wife didn't even tell her parents how much older I was until she turned 18 and was leaving for college after dating me for three years.1