No fate isn't real. It's an idea people made to make life less stressful. Ex: "whether or not I do this , it's my fate... Less worrying"
You determine "outcome" with choices
Most Helpful Guy
Sort of!!! But it might be more of a preset mind sort of thing. In my mind I believe I've met he girl I'm suppose to be with. Like I know it. But can that be fate? Or is it just my desire running wild you know haha?
No. I'm very happy with my wife and I think she's the best one (for me) . But I know I could have been happy with any of two or three girls I knew back then. (not counting those I didn't know at that moment) No fate needed, mainly good will on both sides.
I think think things happens based on prior events and conditions. That given a scenario with those exact same variables that there is no other way it could have happened. Same with our actions, if given the same scenario with our same emotiinal state and same prior life experiences then we act in the way we were predetermined to based on those factors.