I would see it as her being dainty, innocent, and easy to please. High school girls tend to be puppy lovish and "high" on love and feelings, which I like.
Where she may see it different. She may look at it in a different way and think I selected her because she had mature attributes and she has what it takes to be in an adult relationship.
In summary, I don't see her as my age, but I see myself as her age. I know what contradicts itself. Meanwhile, she see's herself as older.
Girls, how would your thoughts be on dating an older guy? How do you think he views you or the relationship?
- YesVote A
- NoVote B
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Most Helpful Girl
My views of myself dating an older guy would be... fine. I'm 24, almost done school. Mentally, I feel zero interest in dating/fucking around for shits and giggles. I'm only interested in the stability and such that a LTR would offer so, assuming that this guy is not >10 or so years older than me, it'd be fine.
A guy in his early 20's with a 17 year old though? Not so sure. If I look back at myself as a 17 year old and compare my mindset and sense of self then to what I feel now, or in the past few years- huge difference. There's a huge amount of maturation, both mental, sexual, etc. that goes on in the few years that separate the couple. It might work, but both would have to always keep these differences in mind and behave accordingly.1
Most Helpful Guy
I'm not touching this5