I want to start a family in few years but I don't want a boyfriend or a husband. I can easily find thousands of sperm donors online and get impregnated. I don't know how to explain my decision to my family but I know my friends will be supportive.
Most Helpful Guy
if you´re alone and bitter, you should get a cat, not a baby. this sounds exaggerated harsh and i don´t know your actual personal reasoning but why would you intentionally put a child through a suboptimal life without having a father figure? having a child isn´t about you. it´s about the child.1
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Most Helpful Girl
If you have thoroughly researched the life of a single mother and parenting responsibilities and you're doing it for the right reasons, not just "I don't wanna deal with someone else", then tell your parents it's a decision you've thought through and are happy with and you'd appreciate their support. However I suggest adoption because you would be helping a child without a family rather than bringing another one into the world who you know won't have a father.0