This guy always comes up to me at parties and starts talking to me. Then after a while, he'll seem to lose interest in the conversation and walk away. But he always initiates conversations. Is he not interested in me at all?
Nope see I start a conversation with a lady!. But after few exchange of dialog I don't want to block her space!.. So I don't force her into conversation!.. So if you are interested in talking to me you need to show me that interest!.. And continue the conversation with enthusiasm!.. So I can clearly see you are interested and happy to spend time with me!.. Because the last thing we want to do it!.. Come like a over possessing manly Jerk.. We all guys start conversation!.. A few words,.. And then we slow down and stop waiting for you to step up.. So it's like a animalistic way of saying I am open right now!.. It's your choice as I like you and I don't want to drag you into this!.. And I am being a gentleman!..
Are you contributing to the conversation? Asking him questions, talking about different things? I actually run into this fairly often with girls, or I did a couple years ago, girls my age have learned how to interact a little better. I'll be talking to a girl that was smiling at me across he room, is obviously attracted to me, but will say very little throughout the conversation to the point where I'm like- ok, I'm just going to leave. If this guy keeps talking to you even though you are barely ctributing, he's only looking for sex, so the fact that he walks away should tell you he's mature enough to want to find a relationship.
Maybe he is. Dont get me wrong, but sometimes you girls amke it hard to keep the conversation going. Its frequently out of pure awkwardness, sometimes pure lack of interest, but many women practically talk as if they're answering a questionnaire. It all becomes dull after a while, you can't stop thinking how you fucked up in some way, and it feels really awkward. The fact that he's trying means he wants to talk more, but that doesn't imply on any interest. Have you considered responding a bit and seeing what he'll do?
Sometimes it could be that he has confidence at first and then loses it to shyness, or he's simply being nice. Ever met a man that you know wants to kiss you but keeps backing off out of nerves, same thing but less serious. Try asking him out if you're interested, or approaching him and starting the conversation. You may be surprised at the change in demeanor.
Conversation dies, you could just be a friend or... it doesn't move to you showing you're interested and he's thinking.. she's not that interested and there's a bunch of other chicks here I could have a chance with!