So technically we're not together (as in officially dating), but we've been "exclusive" for around 10 months and have dated in the past but we're long distance. Anyway, we were talking on the phone and he called this girl he hangs out a pretty decent amount with attractive... He was with her before he called me. He knew it would bother me because he was like "don't take this the wrong way but I'm really attracted to (her name)". I know it's normal to obviously be attracted to other people but the fact that he said it to me made me feel kind of uncomfortable because it's not the first time he's mentioned it. I've seen a picture of her and she's pretty, but not a knockout or anything. I am 99.999% sure he would never cheat on me but it makes me uncomfortable when he talks about her. Should I be worried? I'm kind of mad even though I know I probably shouldn't be.
Most Helpful Guy
It is in bad taste that he talks like that to you. Guys shouldn't talk like that at all. Anyway, maybe he is trying to make you jealous because he wants more from you?1
Most Helpful Girl
... He hangs out with a pretty decent amount with attractive.
From where I am Sitting and as Wise as I am, especially in LDR, it woul dseem he Might just be Giving you Helpul Hints that even though you Say 'We've been '"exclusive"' I am Seeing a Fifth Wheel Deal here, dear.
I don't Trust the Situation 100 %, which Seems this is not a Stone's Throw from Where you are or you Would be at this Other end more, 'Hanging out' and Not... This Girl.
Be Concerned, yes, I would say. Keep an Eye out and Just remember as well, that Open Lines of Convo is More Important than any Pretty face and One that is 'Not a knockout or anything.'
I am not as Convinced as you though of hBm being '99,999% of just What is Going on with her, especially Bringing up her Name a lot.
I am just 'Worried' you May be Missing something. Not being 'Official,' is Something that He has not come to Terms with Wanting to be as of yet.
Good luck. xx0