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I'm lively, forward, and, often, "flirtatious" with random strangers.
Having grown up with four rowdy and bawdy brothers -- with no sisters or mother to "civilize" us -- I'll totally hang sexual innuendoes on random conversations, just as a device to relieve boredom (and to see what kinds of faces I can get guys to make, lol).
I've always been that way, and, frankly, I've never given a fuck. It's fun. It adds a spring to my step and a little sunshine to my day.
I can also read people well enough to sense "sketch factor" and danger at a distance of 500 yards, so, the odds that I'll get myself into trouble are slim to none.
So what's my point?
My point is this:
What WOULD be "temptation" for other women -- women who've constantly been discouraged from random flirting and innuendoes and all that, and who've been taught to add a whole extra layer of "modesty" to their clothes AND their conduct -- just isn't, for me.
It isn't temptation at all.
It's just FUN.
Whenever I've been "taken" -- including my awesome 15+ year marriage, now -- I can still go flirt up a storm, and have FUN, and absolutely not be tempted to stray at all.
Not even a little bit.
Because flirting has never been "forbidden fruit" in the first place.
And if there's any sexual tension, I can bring all that shit home and take it out on my man.
As for checking out hot eye candy? Yeah, of course.
Sometimes, I'll even just tell it how it is... "You're a beautiful man", or other comments like that. When I see, well, a beautiful man.
A comment like that never ruined anyone's day. (:1