The sex is passionate and he's loving but how do I make sure he asks me to be his girlfriend and isn't seeing anyone else?
We met on a dating app recently
Most Helpful Guy
This is a great question and in my opinion there really isn’t any one specific thing you can do to ‘make’ a guy be committed to you or ask you to be his girlfriend. You just have to be yourself, communicate with the one you’re with about your feelings and desires; you know be open about them and don’t be shy and try to hide what they are, and keep the hope he’ll reciprocate and feel the same way about you in the end and decide for himself to be committed to you and, in your case, as you to be his girlfriend.
It has been my experience that when you try to force something or make something happen you’ll almost always never get the result you’re looking for. Something will go wrong and all your efforts will backfire on you. My best advice is to just be yourself, show him how much you desire him, being affectionate with him and towards him, and just let nature take its course. Don’t attempt to force the issue, make him feel something he’s not ready for, or try to trick him into doing something he’s not wanting.
I realize the heart will want what the heart wants and we would all like to believe the person we’re with desires us over anyone else, and if that is so in your case, it will happen when its ready to happen, but again, if you attempt to force the issue or try to make something that isn’t ready to be what you want it to be, then there’s a good chance the end result will not be what you truly wanted.
Instead, again, just be yourself. Be patient. Don’t over extend. Communicate with him how you feel and let him know you’re open to the idea of a committed, exclusive, relationship with him, and then let your relationship progress normally as they should. Hopefully, he’ll feel the same way and you’ll get what you’re after, or he may not be ready, but either way you will have done all you could to pave the way to the outcome you want as best you can and in the end that’s all you really can do, in my belief.4
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Most Helpful Girl
You can never make a man committed to somebody he has not given his heart to. He is more and likely seeing somebody else and only have you as a hookup. Itso just sex. Sex is sex to a man him while sex after a while becomes nothing to Woman , because itshe just used for pleasure or to try to keep a man outside of marriage. Don't fall for a delusion. Men only connect to sex outside of marriage unless by choice. And if even its by choice. Its hard to rewire that part of a man who has been sexual with multiple women.0