Do you believe this, and or do you feel like this saying was just created to make people feel better about being single? I am a single woman, and I hear this all of the time. I want a relationship, but I don't have too much luck in my romance department. I'm like well what am I chopped liver?
Most Helpful Guy
Personally, I believe this is a coping method for others, as you say, to deal with the notion of being single. If they were in a relationship they’d be more positive and feel that not all the good girls and guys are taken, so their friends and companions who are single would not feel badly about being---single. Nothing wrong with the platitudes of the action, just a normal defense individuals will use to protect their own self-image and self-esteem, in my opinion. Again, do not see anything exclusively wrong or right either way. Just a way people will cope or rationalize their current situation in order to not be depressed or sad about said current situation.1
Most Helpful Girl
I sooo inderstand how you feel. Im in the same boat. I feel like I just can't win with someone im interested. I dont really have much experiece in the dating/romance department either. But i realized that if we dont put ourselves out there in a repectful appropriate way then I dont think we'll ever get a date... amd thats what I'm doing now with my crush just trying to make decent covo.. hope this helps you're not alone..2