I met a girl in my college... I love her very much... she rejected me when I asked her out... now we are pursuing post graduation in the same college... our college instructional days are only on saturdays and sundays... we dont talk much as I had a fight with her for rejecting me... actually I was wrong I shouldn't had fought with her... I still love her very much... is there any way I can try to make her mine... she doesn't talk with me bcoz I ignore her... and even I ignore her bcoz I dont want to get friendzoned... she thinks of me only as a friend as she said while rejecting me... I know I dont have any possible chances of getting her... but is there any suggestion or any way of getting her back?
Get her back? Bruh, toy never had her to begin with.
If she says no and you get petty and fight with her about it, then ignore her, you're done. You have no chance at this point. She ain't something you can make "yours", she doesn't like you. Respect yourself and her by moving on. If she wants you later on that'll be on her to approach you.
Apologize and start having confidence! You are the lion and this is your jungle, but you are a noble lion. Lol seriously, practice a better walk, better posture, deep voice and strong eyes but calm. Start creating a light mood around her, make jokes and sometimes make a fool out of yourself goofily. Do the, can you help me with this? Thing. Or offer her something like Uhm.. A drink! Something simple and she will appreciate it. Compliments, look for something new about her, anything. But still be calm and don't say something off like " your eyes look like a blue cheese slice melted in the sun" lmao. We are all human, and we all got soft spots and feelies
NO! You got thats its a NO! Now go get a train set to play with - it will help you forget her. Either that or start smoking the wacky backie - that way you won't just forget her - you'll even forget your own name!
Try to talk to her. You don't know the future. Maybe the way she feels about you might change. There's this guy in my class who I hate so much because he is so irritating but then I end up realizing that I already like him.
Wow, you really fucked this up. It sounds like you behaved badly when she declined your first invitation. The first thing you need to do is sincerely apologize for your behavior. Then ask her for another chance. If she says no again, don't be a jerk. Say "Thanks, I understand. I hope we can be friends."
Look you shouldn't be a jerk about it if you got rejected that's part of life be respectful next time a girl rejects you, don't take it so hard it's her loss. However i think you should apologize for your unnecessary behavior ask for one more chance if she still say's no move on find a girl who appreciates who you are and likes you don't be bitter about bro life is too short to be angry over something like that.
women (no offense here... but it's true) are a bit like monkeys. monkey see, monkey do. So go get yourself a girlfriend, be desirable... and suddenly she WILL give you a 2nd look... they want what they can't have. So being available, while ignoring her or not will not do the trick. You must be uninterested (yet around her, ie YOU friendzone HER-that's the ticket, mate) and yet get other girls (preferably a good looking one of course) interested in you-suddenly she'll be chasing you.
Also talk about sex a lot (and be knowledgeable and confident) that gets them thinking about sex with you-basic pavlovian conditioning... it works. I've never been in a friendzone I didn't climb out of into her bed if I wanted to.