I was thinking about my dating life and a lot of them involve 'incidents' with guys who display this sort of behaviour: They seem to like the chase, they look at me a lot, try to get my attention either by appearing around me a lot or trying to do something/make some kind of noise etc. And I'd have never really noticed them if they did not do the above (I'm quite unobservant). They do this for a very long time, but then... nothing happens. They don't ask me out, try to get to know me nor do they try to approach me.
It's kind of upsetting to think about. Even my first serious boyfriend, I had to initiate and engineer a lot of things at the beginning in order for us to get together.
These guys all come from different age groups and are of different nationalities. I don't think there is something seriously wrong with me... so, not sure what's up.
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I am pretty sure there are other guys who notice you as well but the ones who are loud are usually can usually draw your attention easier.0