There is a girl I knew from high school when she was in her prime. In high school she was a smokin hot 110 pounds. She knew me but chose to date other guys. 18 years go by and she is around 160-165 pounds. The weight is visible. Anyways, we went out for coffee and she wants to see me again. But I don't want to date her because she is not in her prime! I don't want a shell of her former self, I want her in her prime! I will just tell her the truth. I actually have a better body since high school. I'm 6'3 and a well defined 235 pounds no fat.
Would you date a heavy girl, over 160 pounds, no longer in her prime?
Don't listen to these bitter broads telling you to settle for something you don't want. Tell her the truth, this isn't going anywhere and you enjoyed her company but there's no chemistry. You do you "Gramps" (LOL). Fuck the haters. They can suck your toes.
The truth hurts but I guess it's something you have to do. I mean a guy told me he wasn't attracted to me and I was okay with it. We are best friends now. Just try make it truthful, but not harsh. Unless you want to hurt her feelings or something.
Look, there is a difference between not wanting to date someone and being a dick about it. Just say something gentle about not wanting to date her, it's really mean to say that she isn't in her prime or whatever. She has feelings you know
People like whay they like. You don't like it, don't date her. You do realize a pear shaped mid section is like Kim K right? lol Apples carry their fat in their stomaches. But, she's in her 30s, it's unlikely for her to be in her prime
No, but by nice about it. Being hung up on high school enough to post this and brag about your little revenge fantasy or whatever is kinda odd. People you aren't into are sometimes into you. That's life.