Confession. I am livid.
A friend I made plans with to do an adventure race canceled last minute.
Did I mention it is across the country (USA) and required LOTS of planning and money.
We went on 3 dates and are not in a relationship so I was surprised that she wanted to go. In fact I was just contemplating it and she was adamant that we should do it.
The parameters were clear. Going as friends, not an official couple.
As soon as the tickets were purchased she started dragging her feet and pressuring me to commit to become her official boyfriend or she wouldn't do the trip.
I like (ed) her but wanted to get to know her a bit better before taking that step.
2 days before the trip, she bails. I spent $400 on just her tickets.
Now I'm broken-hearted and feel like a fool.
I have dated girls but never been flaked on this badly, this beauty has me tied in knots.
Would you do? What is the worst you have been flaked on?
Have you ever been the flaker?
P. S. Spare me the "all women are like that" comments, I know that is not true.
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wow, sorry to hear~ this girl is inconsiderate, and you deserve better; at least she showed you her true colours before you committed to her, since it sounds like you may have dodged an entire magazine of bullets.
hopefully, you can still salvage your trip. as the others have suggested, sell the ticket or take a friend with you instead.1