I am your typical guy in his twenties with no job, living with my parents and spend all my waking hours playing video games. Whiles I am trying to work on this aspects of my life, I also want to get back into dating soon. I'm just not sure of the best way to handle it when women I meet inevtiably ask me about myself. I know honestly is usually the way to go but it won't exactly work in my favour. So when I meet a woman, should I be honest with them right away that I don't work and live with my parents? Or should I at first and wait until they "like me more" before telling them the truth?
Also I don't want to wait until I at least have a job before trying to meet women. I just don't see a reason to do it that way. If I can't find a single attractive women who would date a guy who doesn't then so be it. But if I can go out today and find a hot girl who's willing to date me, then I would happily date her.
Yes, be honest with women you meet because if you lie to them. They will find out eventually. People shouldn't date others just because they have a good career or rake in the money. They should date each other because they are compatible, attracted to each other and get on like a house on fire. Your in the same boat as me, I always end up unemployed now, since I got made redundant from my first full time job. But I've been applying for jobs because I still really want a job. The only difference is that I'm not looking for anyone at the moment. Just tell them that your unemployed but your searching for jobs. The important thing is that you want to work and they'll see that. I could completely understand people being turned off by layabouts who refuse employment.
i'm not trying to knock you life but i want to be honest. it is not typical to be 25 living with your parents with no job and play video games all day... just to get that out of the way
if you are asked you need to be honest. i think if you aren't asked you can try and push off telling them that stuff but you will run the risk of when you finally tell them face the potential of them being disappointed and feeling like you intentionally omitted it. so i think it's important to probably find a way to tell girls sooner than later
If you lie at5 the very start, why should any woman trust you after finding that you not to do it again. Women want a man that self supports or at least is doing what it takes to find a job. Times are tough, but I know a number of people who need work. They don't just sit home and play games. They spend their time doing anything to find work. There is no future with you the way you live now. Whose money are you going to use for dating? Spending all your time playing video games as an adult is pretty sad to anyone who has a life. Playing video games all the time means you are not doing what it takes to find work and shows a total lack of responsibility and find living at your parents house the easy way out of having to work. You don't have much to offer a woman right now and playing games with a woman's emotions is totally wrong. I'd look at your life before including anyone else in it. If you do and are honest with yourself, you'll see how a woman has no future with you.
Because once she's serious, you'll be a broke guy living at home with your parents, but with a willing personality, apart from being a chronic liar... yeah nevermind.
Just start working on your plan, and if women ask what you do, tell them 'i'm trying to get a career in xyz' going. Some women care about how much you're making, others care about your ambition, as long as you're working a plan, some might be okay with it.
I seriously urge you to work on yourself find that "hot girl" will be a lot more easy to reel in when she knows your not a bum with no ambition in life, but then again there are bummy ass girls out there to so I don't know.
Now I'm not a girl, but I think the not having a job wouldn't be a the main issue bug ur attitude about it. If you are working hard at getting one I don't see that being the end of the world but if you have no intention of getting one that could be a problem.
I wouldn't mention it in the first 20 minutes at least lol but I would be straight forward. You don't need to come off as an ass who's like lying or someone who is immature and not responsible. Just meet them talk to them and get to know them. Only tell them like once you know she Kind of likes you