This may be an over-asked question, but why do some men seek virgins? I had 0 sexual activity before meeting my SO, and because of that he seemed very happy. I was surprised actually, because I thought a woman with no skill would be a turn off.
I was in a weird relationship before this one, and he got creepy about it. Treated me like a trophie, and seemed to be the only reason he wanted me. I left before anything happened, and it was a scary breakup.
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Other than for religious reasons virginity is in fact very important. I have explained about this before as an opinion on two different MyTakes. But here is the reasons why it is very important:
1: Virginity is YOU. It is a part of YOU. It is not just physical, it is everything of your entire being. What makes you up emotionally, sexually, mentally, psychologically and spiritually as well. It is very important. Because now your giving away part of yourself to a person that may or may not deserve you.
2: You will never compare another sex partner to your spouse or a new sex partner. Men and women can sense when there is 'another', but it isn't always physically. The bond is tougher to break with two people who already saved themselves for each other, especially in marriage. Outside of it, becomes very risky. Because now if things don't work out or you never marry them, your bound to head to divorce.
Besides the STD/STI risk and pregnancy that is not wanted, there is a lot to consider based on the sexual choices and selections one make now. As it will effect your overall future. Wither or not your going to get married or have children, let alone maintain and stay in a marriage without divorce. But usually these days, if the guys isn't focused on the benefits of a nonsexual relationship, its more so for him to be her first so she'll always remember him [which is not good if you get married], and the fact that your tighter, so it will make the sexual encounter more pleasurable more so for him than you. But if the virgin likes the experience, he will stick around just for that.
In the end make sure that you make your intentions very clear. Wither your looking for a sexual relationship or not. It is extremely important.1