If a girl is amazingly beautiful, tall and has broad shoulders, how much will looks play it's part?
- Looks are everything, either you have the looks or not.18% (3)33% (6)26% (9)Vote
- Looks are not everythng, lack of looks can be compensated by confidence, humour etc.53% (9)33% (6)43% (15)Vote
- It all depends on if you push the girl's buttons or not.6% (1)17% (3)11% (4)Vote
- Looks, height, weight all matter to a tall beautiful woman, if you don't have these minimum standars then you don't stand a chance.12% (2)17% (3)14% (5)Vote
- Others (pls comment)11% (2)0% (0)6% (2)Vote
Most Helpful Girl
hi there, please lets start from removing that she has to be amazingly beautiful, attraction in relevant to the moment in time i believe. a person often has a type but personally and from looking at my friends male and female we have all had very different partners across the board. one thing i have seen is often the most beautiful women have the most insecurities about themselves, which is very sad, whereas men I've encountered with good looks or good body are often the very opposite. a meeting with another at a point in time could happen for any number of reasons, that at that point work and maybe wouldn't of at another point in time xx1
Most Helpful Guy
I put "looks are everything" but I need to put some major caveats.
What I mean is that if you find a girl who says, "My boyfriend is ugly to me", then I'd question her interest in him as a sexual/romantic partner. The same goes for any guy who thinks his girlfriend is ugly.
To me it's essential for a person to find their partner attractive to have any sexual desire for them, and without any sexual desire you can't really expect romantic feelings to sprout out.
So to me looks are everything in that if you cannot be considered physically attractive to your partner (male or female), then I think you're SOL.
The nice thing is that people have a range of what kind of looks they would accept in a partner along with some flexibility there. It's not like people play an actual league game when it comes to the looks department since two people would rarely rate the exact same person identically. Each person has a type.
They might also look twice and reconsider if they find nice qualities about you other than looks, but to me there still has to ultimately be a physical attraction developing there or else I'd seriously question the relationship.
And "looks" to me goes beyond what can be captured in a photo. It covers charismatic qualities like how you carry yourself, how you speak, walk, talk, smile, etc.1