I met this guy... I had a crush on him a few years back but only started talking to him now. We crossed paths and I took the opportunity. However, the timing is all off due to our own commitments with our careers and current life happenings. I'm now realizing that if we were to ever start anything, it won't be until a year from now or next summer... And it just really saddens me because in my 22 years, I've never felt so certain about a guy before. I'm beyond choosy with men, never had a relationship or lost my head and heart to a guy... Ever since I laid eyes on him, I knew he was my kind. I knew we'd click, I knew it. And through talking to him and somewhat getting to know each other, I know he feels it too but I got too ansy and pushy and he backed away.. I know the timing was off but I chose to try anyways, even if it made no sense to. He's going away soon until next year, and I'm just so... Dead inside? Like here this guy was presented to me, and I know we're perfect for each other as one can be, and I can't be with him. At least for now.. And I'm just so bummed. We haven't spoken in like 2 weeks, and we probably won't for quite sometime. I won't get another chance until next year, especially since I'm starting my last year at my college soon... Ugh why does life suck like this?
What do you do when you meet someone but can't be with them due to wrong timing? How do I stop feeling so down about it all?
What Guys Said 3
I remind myself to hit on her later.0
Ya cautiousness kills love and opportunity. sounds like you want everything to be just right. And now you have nothing.0
What Girls Said 1
You don't just stop feeling that way. It takes effort. And growth. But mostly, it takes acceptance from you to life itself.0