Long story short, a guy initially showed interest in me, said he wanted to get to know me, and we texted back and forth for a while. He eventually began to lose interest in me since he took days to respond back to me. I noticed this and asked him if he was interested in me as in considering being in a relationship with me and he later replied saying that he was "too busy" to get to know me. I eventually asked him if he still wanted to be friends and he said "of course". I even asked him if I could add him on Facebook and he did. He texted me back on forth on that very same day he added me. 24 hours later, I check my Facebook page and noticed that he deleted me and blocked my number.
I am so depressed right now because I feel as if I did everything right and every time I meet someone I like, I always end up getting hurt one way or another. I keep wondering why he changed his mind so quickly about me. I don't even have the desire to live right now. How can I regain my strength and ego back?
Most Helpful Guy
First off, with you the guy was a player or some other form of low grade scum, there's nothing wrong with you if that's the whole story.
Well, young and inexperienced me has had to deal with two rejections. The second was boring and a last ditch attempt to date a girl I'd otherwise never see again. The first was terrible. It took a month to get over and I was doing it wrong the whole time, but the girl was an awesome person and supported me the whole time as a friend. I was thinking about and messaging her all day when in fact the best cure is to distract yourself, with other people or with something else.2
Most Helpful Girl
This happened to me, well the circumstances are different. However, my best advice would be for you to distract yourself/ take time to move on. Don't let the actions of some idiot get you down. It was his loss, and not yours. Remember your worth, and that there are many guys out there who would not do you like he has. Life is too short to sit, sulk, and suffer over something that probably wasn't meant for you anyway. Don't even allow yourself to question your desire to live either. I know how you feel, and I've been there. You have so much to live for. One day you will find someone, and you won't even remember this guy. Your heart is broken right now, but things Will get better, and life goes on.2