I recently broke up with a girlfriend of over three years; there was little emotional connection for almost half of that and it reached the point where it wasn't even a relationship of convenience anymore. Now I'm worried, because I'm not finding any girls attractive. I can't even... relieve stress... because nothing arouses me right now. I'm bitter towards personality traits I've always found attractive, even the ones that my ex doesn't have.
Is this all normal? How long does it take to wear off? This is my first "real" breakup, as she was my first "real" relationship, and I don't want to be bitter and lonely forever. Is there a way to break this funk?
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I honestly don't think this is something you should worry about. When that right girl comes along, you're body and mind will start freaking out again. But right now, I think you're going through a time-out phase.
Don't try to change yourself or force yourself to feel things if it won't come naturally, because that will just be another mistake. There's no law that says you have to produce a jug a semen or have orgasms at the sight of a woman. Just live your life, dude. You're more than just dating material anyway.0