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Most Helpful Girl
As a girl, I will say attractive.
Of course it's going to be awkward and weird. But I like the idea of showing a guy his first good time 😏1
Most Helpful Guy
To me virginity for a guy is probably going to be towards an attractive or neutral quality to a lot of nicer girls on paper, maybe only negative for those who specifically value sexual experience and don't have the patience for a virgin...
BUT too often the inexperience is accompanied by a difficulty in knowing how to charm and confidently (not courageously, confidently wouldn't require courage) approach girls, ask them out, and really show them the best time on a date. It's a competition out there for girls who are widely desirable and my money's generally on the experienced guy to have an edge in attracting a girl and setting himself apart from the guys waiting in line and wanting a specific girl too much too soon.
So to me that's the biggest disadvantage of being a male virgin and it's not really related to the lack of sexual experience, but just the general lack of comfort around girls that typically accompanies virginity. A virgin guy will tend to have the usual sexual desire for a girl but on top of that a burning curiosity of what it's like to be with a girl in a romantic/sexual way, and that curiosity tends to have a negative effect on their ability to confidently just talk to a girl.
Experienced guys usually don't have much issues with confidence since they generally won't want a girl they haven't dated so much. It'll tend to take a bit more than some friendly exchanges here and there for them to develop feelings, and by that point the girl will often be feeling the same way. Developing all these feelings prior to that can often mess up your ability to act naturally and smoothly around a girl.0
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