IS IT OKAY FOR A 24 YEAR OLD YOUNG LADY TO DATE A 19 YEAR OLD YOUNG MAN?

Even though he's younger than her he's in college trying to make a future for himself. She gives him space to grow and she doesn't make him feel like a child either. She treats him equally. But what do all think its okay for a 24 year old girl to date a 19 year old young man?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • It's fine, as long as you're on the level of maturity you won't have any issues

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    • 3mo

      That's one of the things I fear but he seems mature to me though..

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    • 3mo

      That's good then👍

    • 3mo

      Yesss!!

Most Helpful Girl

  • It's fine.

    I have a friend who's 28 and is dating a 20 year old guy... we obviously razz the hell out of her for it, especially because they started dating when he was 19 so we razzed her about dating a teenager, but he's a really good guy, has his shit together and is definitely way farther in his career than I was at his age!

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    • 3mo

      Wow thats really good.. see thats what i fear most is people teasing amd being judgmental of me talking to someone 5 years younger than i am. But i think itll be fine over time.. and i noticed the same anout him he's in college and seems to have a bright future ahead of him..

    • 3mo

      Well, in my group of friends we are all a bunch of ass holes to tease each other over everything lol

      In our crew, if we DON'T tease you, it's a sign that we probably don't actually like you that much...

    • 3mo

      Lol right you guys are really close.. i just take a lot of things personal that i should and say whatever n brish it off.. lol

What Guys Said 12

  • seems fine to me

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  • Its completely fine, as long as u are fine with it.

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  • Sure I don't see a problem with it

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  • 6 years gap. I don't really see it as a big deal. Date whomever you want to date, what else can I say?

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  • Why not? They are both legally adults.

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  • Why the hell not? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
    He is of legal age, and you're only 5 years older anyway.

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  • But you treat him as son now.

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  • she will try to control him specially with his young age

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  • Yes, it is

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  • off course it ok...

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What Girls Said 9

  • My parents started dating when my Dad was 19 and my Mum was 23.

    Neither of you are underage so I say as long as you love each other, go for it! You have my support.

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  • nothing wrong with her dating a younger guy

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  • If they're both happy and he's mature enough and it's a healthy relationship I don't see why not. Divorce rates skyrocket in marriages where the women is older, but there is always an exception to the rule. If you can make a relationship work and you're better for it, do it.

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    • 3mo

      Right i believe its the mental state of maturity in both individuals.. because I used to be the type that thought I would fall for a younger guy.. I believe it will work if we both want it too..

  • Why you care, both are you're legal adults. Go for it.

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  • Lol no. I'm going to a community college right now to do some pre reqs and a freshman started hitting on me. So the age gap is 18 to 22. I would never date someone that much younger than me. Too weird.

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    • 3mo

      Yea a lot of girls always prefer someone older than them.. I was even like that once before I really got interested in someone younger than me.. plus im more into mental than age

  • If they're okay with it it's fine... Tbh I wouldn't date someone who was 5 years younger than me.

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  • If it's okay for men to do it, it's okay for females to do it as well. :3

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  • after school age doesn't really matter anymore... both are adults... You can't choose who you fall in love with

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  • What exactly is the problem? They are both legal adults...

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