You click, have fun with both of these guys, both have what you are looking for. The only real difference is in social situations one is "confident" the other isn't. But the second guys gives you the best sex you have ever had, the other one, meh.
Confident but "meh" in bed.
Shy, quiet, but the BEST sex I have ever had!
And you are? I'm a GirlGuys can not vote on this poll
Honestly neither would be a good fit. I don't like to date shy guys because I feel like I run roughshod over them and that's not fair to them and no relationship is going to last long with a mediocre physical aspect.
I'm sexually submissive, so a guy who isn't confident couldn't even get me into bed with him in the first place. Conversely, I'm not into those braggart "alpha" types. I like confident dominant men. I wouldn't enjoy the sex with the shy guy, because I wouldn't even be attracted to him. I'm sapieosexual. I'm attracted to intellect before anything else.
I am personally attracted to quieter men, they never dissapoint in the bedroom!
Who cares how his social skills lol
Good sex isn't enough to carry a relationship. I don't mind a quiet guy as long as he doesn't try to isolate me from social occasions or expect me to entertain or protect him socially all the time instead of interacting with others. Which frankly, nonshy guys can do too.