If I really like a girl, I'd prefer to call her, even if only for a few minutes than to text her. Sure, I'd text her anyway, but calling is more personal and it takes more effort. And personally, if I'm going to talk on the phone, I try to make the extra effort of going somewhere away from other people, for a little bit of privacy (I'll take myself even further away when calling a girl I like) so if I call a girl for 40 minutes a day, you can be damn sure I feel strongly about her. As for texting, it's something that I do with everyone, so it's not got any real importance behind it.
I'd best wind up face to face with her, but that's me & everyone has their own way of doing things.
Generally I text people if it's nothing urgent but in this case I'd make an exception cause I like her & I want us to know each other better plus I want her to know I like her (ofcourse I won't mince words telling her that)
Texting is very useful because the other person can answer exactly when they have the time, while thinking deeply about it. So ideal for arranging meetings or providing information.
On the other hand it is very bad on communicating emotions, and potentially it can lead to misunderstandings. In fact people is usually very kind to me in real life, but on the Internet strangers frequently misunderstand me and become angry.
In relationships I found it is even more dangerous, and you can see there is nothing strange about the way I write. If the talk is about feelings, I would say a big nono.
See, it actually depends on my phone plan. Imma be broke if I talk 40 mins with anyone. That said I would rather talk than text IF I WERE GIVEN THE CHOICE. I wouldn't mind texting either but you can show emotions and feelings better over voice.
I hate talking on the phone, even if I like her. lol
I wouldn't call just because it seems so too personal for most people nowadays and if I'm only in the flirting stage I don't want to scare her off. I'd eventually once we got serious prefer to talk on the phone though. But for awhile it's just texting so I can keep her from running scared of me coming on too strong.
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