So last year I met him through a prison pen-pal website (yes, i admit i was kind of lonely at that time), and we have been writing each other for about a year now. The difference is that now I'm in the best moment of my life; i'm happier, healthier, sociable than ever and my mindset is in peace, finally. I have a developed a huge soft spot for him, he's 3 years older than me and has 2 more years in prison. He's a really good guy, and very smart and determined (he's actually taking university courses there). My question is: do you think is possible to be in an actual real relationship once he gets out? (of course not right after), do we really have a chance? or should i just keep with the flirting but without going beyond that? and what's your opinion in all this?
*we have never meet in person (we live in different states)
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Keep it tame until he gets out and live your life. Meet other guys and do your thing. If when he gets out you both still want that relationship then you can see about it. But until then do not put your life on hold for him. If he asks you to then that isn't right. Also when he does get out be safe.2