A guy at my work has always been very flirty. The other night we got drinks with friends and he pulled me off alone and kissed me - but he has a girlfriend. His girlfriend found us talking at 3am (just talking) and dumped him right away because she overheard him saying how much he likes me. He declared he's liked me for awhile, thinks i'm amazing, etc. I worked with him soon after and we acted normal, he apologized for what happened, and when I drove him to his car he kissed me agian, we ended up kissing for a good hour and joking around.
What is he doing? I know he's attracted to me but also says he likes me. I don't know what to think or do. I wouldn't date him ever, or sleep with him, because his lifestyle is not at all what I look for in a guy, but I'm attracted to him and keep thinking about kissing him. Is it ok to just have fun?
Most Helpful Guy
you aren't obeying your own boundaries and sound like you are not in control of yourself nor understand yourself. Feelings are some of the worse guides because they change. If you are right that his lifestyle doesn't match yours, at some point, when the feel good wears off those things show up and you will be annoyed by him.
he just came off a relationship and ended it poorly and you are playing with him (not good on either account).
You are young and allowed to make mistakes and not understand things. Why don't you tell me what is going on inside of you. Why are you caving in on someone you don't care about. I suspect you will have a hard time doing that. Does this guy remind you of your father?
Most Helpful Girl
It's OK to just have fun!! Just make sure that he knows this is how you feel, and he's not expecting more. If both of you just want to have fun then that's awesome! I, personally would've developed feelings after that first kiss... lol. I fall in crush-like-love easily. Plus all that heavy kissing would get me in trouble girl...0