I found a lady online (2 years older than me) who is pretty much what I've been looking for. She wants a goofy, fun guy to settle down with... Build cushion forts, go on adventures, cuddle while watching a movie. She likes all the same things I like.
The only hesitation I have is that she has two children. I've never been married and only had one relationship, so this is new territory for me... Can anyone give me advice on what its like to date someone who has kids? I'm infertile myself, so I wouldn't be able to have my own children, even though I would like to have them. We are both ready to settle down with someone to come home to.
Most Helpful Girl
My 'Only' Fear is that you may Decide she has this Baggage and you are Not this Ready Eddy. it happens a lot in this sort of Scenario here, dear.
If you Choose to Take this Step, do it in Baby Steps by going Slow with your Flow. It takes Someone Special to Want to Take on Someone on with children, and you Seem to be just what she Might be Looking for. You both are Showing a Great chemistry so far. But don't Rush Right into anything. Take your Time.
Don't worry about the Kids right now. In the int-rum of Nursing and Nurturing with her, the kids will Eventually consider that Perhaps you are Cool if you Show them how Much you Care about their Mom and Them Themselves.
You might have to Make a Great Effort to make a Big Impact on All of their lives. Remember though, her Cubs will Always be at the Top of her Priority list, you will come Second Best from her Rest.
Good luck. xx
Most Helpful Guy
Been there done that... Twice , married both. I'm with you in the aspects of not being able to have kids , yet wanted to be a parent. If I offered any words of caution it would be to bow out if the kids have passed a certain age as regardless as to how gods you are or how hard you try you will not be well received and it will be a nightmare that awakening from doesn't make it go away if you follow.1
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