Well I like texting but I know some guys hate it and some times I assume they aren't interested in me, especially when they take a week to reply! So do you like texting or is it more of a chore to you?
- I hate it and would rather only do it to arrange to meet.Vote A
- I don't mind it as long as it isn't too frequent (like every day)Vote B
- I will text if the other person is into texting and i like them.Vote C
- I love texting! I would do it every day!Vote D
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I believe we do a lot in the name of love and the feelings we have for another. Therefore, I believe that if a person was texting me and they enjoyed the activity and I'm free, not like if I was at work or a social event where it wasn't acceptable, but barring those examples, then yes I am agreeable to texting someone who enjoyed it as well.
I wouldn't ignore them. Even if I didn't like an action they did but they wanted me to join in on the activity, I still wouldn't just ignore them, because in my view point that's just rude and selfish. I've said this before and I'll say it again. Relationships which are stable and health, generally, are maintained through constant communication and for the most part, compromise on both sides of those involved.
When you refused to compromise, because and especially if it is inconvenient to do so, then typically you're relationship is already doomed to fail, because of your choice to think mainly of yourself instead of balancing your wants and desires with the one you are with.
This has nothing to do with being passive or assertive or not thereof. It is just about being empathetic and compassionate with the one you're with, the one you care about, and the one you love. It all matters. Your feelings and wants matter and so does their's and you should always consider how your actions affects another in the relationship before you do something or NOT do something. That's my bottom line. End of story.0