not a crush.. but something like this has happened that I'd say oh he's attractive but I won't be interested when he approaches.. like recently I saw this hot guy who was my dad's friend's son.. and in a few weeks he sent a proposal.. and I was like "DA FUCK?" and this month a guy from my university.. he's hot too,.. but when he contacted me... I was like nah.. I'm not dating you just because you're hot.. so yeah I don't ''crush'' easily :D
I said I haven't but I am in a situation right now currently where it seems that me and a guy friend of mine who I have only been friends with for years have both developed a crush on each other. But, he is way younger than me and although we currently have a similar lifestyle I am trying to begin my career and ready to settle down into adult life and I am too old to date for fun knowing it wouldn't work. So, if it came down to it and he brought it up I would turn him down although I completely adore him. :(
Yes, because at the time I wasn't ready for a relationship. I was still dealing with hurt from the past , so I knew it would be unfair to give my heart to another guy when I was still picking up the pieces of my own. Neither of us would have been happy. It was a case of wrong timing
Im not much for relationships. Not traditional at least. But I still notice guys. Still will get crushes on them. And for one reason or another it's better that it doesn't go any further than that so I reject them.
Yes.. it's weird actually, guys that did like me were the ones I didn't like cause I usually liked someone who didn't like me. But that doesn't happen very often, men normally don't like me very often or have crushes on me either.. only happens when the moon turns blue haha
Oh yes. I used to do that all the time. I guess I was shy and nervous and just didn't want to date anyone. I'm glad the last one I rejected kept trying to ask me out, because eventually I accepted and now we're together. :P
Had a super gorgeous friend that I always found attractive. But I was in a relationship at the time. When I became single many years later, we stayed friends but kept being flirty. Although she was gorgeous, she was often moody and I found I could only spend a few hours at a time with her before I got annoyed. So I knew a relationship would never work out.
On Christmas Day, her boyfriend broke up with her and she called me crying. I left my family Christmas to pick her up and spend some time with her. We ended up drinking tons that night and she was on the rebound. Ended up at my place and in my bed and she was all over me and taking her clothes off. Somehow with all that alcohol, I still managed to think straight and made a BS story that I didn't want to take advantage of her like that. So I drove her home, which was 30 mins away, piss drunk as hell. But drove super slow.
She could have slept over since we had drank so much, but I was pretty sure if she did, we'd have had sex. She spent the next 2 weeks putting on the sexual pressure on me, but never gave in.
Still curious to this day how great the sex would have been with someone so hot.
Actually this is my default reaction... But sometimes some girl still find way to make me drop that... Last time girl hard time just to find my name i see in her eyes that she likes me i find her attractive and still i didn't even want to introduce my self even tough that she saw me almost every day for atlast 30 min... Now she know name and talks with me but still i didn't do any thing about that and dont intend to... Why well I just losed all faith in girls so i dont believe that it can work, that any relationship can work... But yes girl is almost exectly my type especially by character and she is gorgeous, and i know she likes me by the way how she looks at me and cos no girl would go trough some of things she did just to find even little about me
I'm not into the whole disordered "push-pull" thing many women do... or "indecisiveness". I've had at least a few crushes... then I get them, after a week or two they push me away-and then try to COME BACK and I don't play that shit. If they push me away, I'm gone. So ya, in those cases I've rejected former crushes at least a few times, but I was previously involved with them in such cases.
I've had at least 5 girls from high school either ask me out or have their friends ask me out for them One was very persistent and pretty much asked me out every year One turned out to be a hottie Two of them were softball players who I guessed were lesbians And I don't know what happened to the other
Hell yes, I dumped 2 of my girlfriends because i knew them when they chose to date other douche bags over me. Finally after their break ups, they try to tell me I'm the best thing ever and I should had chosen you first blah, blah, blah. Well karma is bitch. I used them for sex, treated them like shit, and dumped their used pussies. They should have chosen me first
I've only really had two full-on "crushes" — first one I never asked because I knew it'd never lead to anything (and I've started to dislike them for unrelated reasons since), second one was returned. So no.
yeah because i was playing csgo so much at the time that I wouldn't be able to talk to her and that would probably make her sad now it's gotten to the point where I play csgo so much I don't talk to people