Just wondering, how do you get over it?
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What? That's it? You just give up like that? Unless you have a medical condition which has left you severely physically deformed, you have no excuse. Is that what you do in life? Cry about things like a little baby, give up, and then ask questions on a random site filled with people who hardly know anything about relationships just so they can pet your ego and tell you that everything is fine and agree with you? Way to show character, no wonder you're in the situation you're in right now.
How about you stop crying about it and start working on improving yourself so you can become the best version of you, a version that will get guys interested. Do something productive that will solve your problem and not something that will temporarily make you feel better. Love doesn't come to you and land on your lap, it takes work. The work is personal growth and keeping your eyes open. Are you unattractive? Go to the gym and get a killer body, don't be lazy. Are you too shy? Get over it and talk to people, ANYONE. Work your way up and things that seemed difficult in the past will seem like the norm in the future. Life isn't easy, life is a cold hearted bitch that will swallow you and spit you whole if you let it get to you. So stop with this stupid, yes stupid, and weak attitude and do something about it. Take it one step at a time, give yourself a small goal everyday and work your way up from there. Stop believing in what you can't do and concentrate on what you can do. You do you and worry about nothing else until you're a happy person. It's only when you love yourself that others can love you as well. Seriously how do you expect someone else to love you if you don't love yourself? If you did love yourself you'd want to best for you and not settle for a miserable life. So start loving yourself and who you are and work on making yourself happier and the version of you that you always dream about. Yes it will be difficult in the begging, but the longer you keep at it the easier it will get. So get yourself out of this rut and go for a walk. Look around and take in all the beauty in the world.
So stop being such a little bitch.3
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