So there are two guys that I work with, that flirt with me. One time one even caressed my hand (it was weird and really out of the blue, but thats a whole other story). The other checks me out and asks if I am ok (like after we hang out or do something). But both of them have girl friends. I didn't know before, but now that I do I find it kind of weird.
I honestly don't know. I'm you in reverse: the women with boyfriends seem to be the ones who really go after me, not the single ladies.
I guess a lot of it comes down to the thrill of cheating and trying to get away with it. I don't know how you're behaving around these guys, but make certain that nothing you're doing could (reasonably) be taken as flirting.
Sounds to me that they want too cheat on their GF's. You are very young. You will learn that there are a ton of boys and men (girls and women too) who cheat on their SO's. Tell them to keep their hands off you.
Well it's very difficult to gage. Your insight is probably the only way to determine the correct reason or reasons. It could be that you are better looking or just more compatible with either of them than their current partner. Or it could be something so vulgar like they think you are someone that would be with one of them in spite of them being in a relationship. They could just be womanizers and do this to multiple women. Only you have all the collective facts and experiences needed in this context with these two particular gentlemen to determine an educated guess... Or you could straight up ask them- hey I know you have a girlfriend, so why do you still flirt with me? Although I doubt you would get an honest answer.
the same reason why girls with boyfriends try and get me to approach them. One thing is for sure, me being a guy does not make me flirt with someone who has a partner. there are just a lot of skanky people for both genders who really do no care about breaking a relationship up.
They probably aren't loyal to their lovers, like an extremely large majority of the world's males. It is really sad actually, well from my point of view. I would never do that, even if I didn't have a girl friend. Plus, it's pretty disrespectful towards you.
Probably because they see you as someone they can harmlessly flirt with. I mean, if their not doing it to anyone else, probably. But it could also mean that you have a slutty reputation and they think they can get with you and you'll keep it on the DL
Some of the reasons I seen: just for fun some don't notice that they are flirting or don't consider it as flirting for egoboost/to know they are still somethig worth on the girl market for fun/test the market and if it fits, have a ONS or switch against the old girlfriend
they're either attention starved or in unhappy relationships, and think it's ok to cheat
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