a person who tries to make someone jealous is a turn off and shows immature tendencies. someone who makes someone jealous is a warning saying there is whole lot of childish crap if you take it any further with that person. a person who gets jealous shows cares. so to a certain extent you should show that you care. in my opinion if you are asking this because you are scared about showing your jealousy then just dont hide it. people like to take advantage of jealous people, and it can get quite messy. in my opinion you should care about a person, but if someone is trying to manipulate you by making you jealous then dont feed into it. Its a different story of course, if you are getting jealous when your boyfriend says hi to a cashier who happens to be a girl.
Depends, jealousy can mean a person cares about you and the relationship. If you were all hugged up on another guy and your boyfriend not once gets a little heated about it, wouldn't you raise eyebrow and wonder why? To me it would mean that they don't care and would be fine if I went off with someone else. Then there your unhealthy and downright scary jealousy type.. the ones who get angry for just breathing the same air or being in the same room with another guy. That's the type jealousy you want to look out for and avoid... so I look at in a balanced way, a little bit of jealousy is normal to feel.. we're human.. it happens. But when it becomes to much and scary then it's problem.
I'll answer this honestly - a LITTLE jealousy is a turn on. A LITTLE. When it goes beyond that, when it gets to be way too much, it is a burden and actually is no longer a turn on but draws me away from the person I'm interested in.
yeah cause its always unfounded... my last ex destroyed our entire relationship cause we were having threesomes with these other chicks that i didn't really take seriously and she was getting all jealous and shit and she thought i was going to leave her for them. like jesus the point is we're partners in crime and they're just the weekly flavor, they've got all the more right to be jealous of you but it never happens that way.
If she's cute about it and not too overbearing, it's cute. It also depends on the context... if her past boyfriends have cheated on her and I'm working/studying with very attractive girls I'll give her a pass for being salty.
Immediate turn off. I don't like guys who do that. They are no better than other men, and its immaturity. An immediate red flag. After a while they grow obsessive and possessive, and it can lead to an abusive situation. More so psychologically, emotionally and mentally if not physically. You play with fire, your going to get burned.
Turn off. In my experience jealousy can lead to anger and accusations. I used to have guy friends and my boyfriend at the time would get jealous to the point of causing a scene infront of my friend and my family. I dumped him. can't handle that whole jealousy thing.
Possessiveness is not attractive. If I am with a guy and he wants to check my phone, doesn't want me to be friends with guys, suspects me of cheating all the time, etc., then that is a turn off and I will break up with him. Jealousy I understand because when you are with a girl or a guy you want them to only be yours in a romantic and sexual way. That is understandable. I am a jealous person but it is whether you act on it or not that matters.