I was talking to a guy online for quite sometime and we both have discussed meeting. He is extremely busy right now with 2 jobs, one of which is seasonal so it requires a lot of his time. The people in his life depend on him too since they work together. Anyways, I kept asking to hang out, or see him and he stopped talking to me. He is out of state right now for his seasonal job, and so he is busy so talking is understandably less.. But it has been a couple weeks since I last tried to talk to him and nothing. I was wondering if maybe he'll come back around once his life slows down after he returns home or if I blew it by hinting or asking him out when he told me he was busy a few times.
I would just send him a message saying something like.. 'Hey, i hope you're okay. I miss talking to you. I'm here if you want to talk, you know that right?' If he doesn't reply, that to me says he's not that into you. It only takes 2 seconds to send a message after all.
You did nothing wrong and he's not into you. you'll have another chance with another man
Okay.. Maybe just send him a message saying that you hope he's okay and hope works okay and you miss talking to him ( something along those lines anyway ) wait and see if he replies.. If he doesn't reply then move on find someone new etc etc. If he does reply be nice and understanding and suggest meeting when his seasonal job ends.. He may just be super nervous to meet you!