So I met this guy online 2 weeks ago. We talked for about a week before we went out. The first date was good. He didn't make any attempt to kiss me just a hug. The next day he messaged me in the morning and asked when he could see me again. He was going to be away for the weekend so I said early next week. On Sunday night we made plans for Monday. The date was good and he asked me out for the following night to his place but still made no attempt to kiss me. Tuesday night he made me supper and we cuddled on the couch. We were falling a sleep and he said I should just stay. I said I should go. When I went to leave he gave me a super long tight hug and a long kiss. The next morning I texted and said I had fun. He messaged back and asked when he could see me again. I told him Fri or Saturday where I was busy. He responded with not tonight? I said maybe I would be able to do something. I ended up going over to hangout. We watched a movie and made out on the couch, i could tell he wanted more but I really wanted to make sure he liked me before I did. It was really late and we were falling a sleep and he said you should just stay. So I did and nothing happened. In the morning he gave me a long tight hug again and a kiss and I left. I never heard from him all day. At 9pm I texted how was your day? It's been 12 hours and still nothing. I'm not going to send another text but just wondering if you think his lost interest that quick? I total want to see him again and sleep with him ;P I didn't think I was making him wait too long where he never made a move on the first 2 dates... Please tell me what you think
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I think you did fine, I don't see a problem. expectation around frequency of texting and what is in those texts causes a lot of problems. I suggest using the thingie where you can talk to the other person a lot more than text until you have good established communication protocols.
Sounds like a good guy and isn't a player. if that is your first date after a long time, you did very well!0
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Does he get jealous0