I've been talking to a guy recently and he's just gotten out of a really long relationship ( 5 year long) . It's been around 5 months or something and he seems way better but do you think he has really moved on? Also if we do have something , will I just be a rebound?
Most Helpful Guy
Keep your guard up, but if you start to notice anything strange about his behaviour or that he starts bringing up comments about his ex and that he's not really happy or something then that isn't going to really get anywhere as he really wasn't ready to move on. For now just focus on the positives and just have fun and enjoy your time together without being too serious about it, or how it will all play out or turn out.0
Most Helpful Girl
It really depends on how the relationship ended.
I recently got out of 4 years relationship like 6 mos ago too so I'm pretty much like in the same place as your guy.
My ex cheated, I knew he's not the one I will never be happy with him, so I'm completely moved on now. I loved him cared for him very much, and he will always have his place in my heart but I know I will never give him another chance. if he's moved on like I have, then he's ready to have a new relationship.
Nobody can tell you that unless you talk to him ask him. Even rebound relationship can lead to something more I wouldn't worry much just be yourself and talk to him if that bothers you. If he cares you, he will have no problem talking about it and make you feel secured.0