Personally for me, i have experienced various substances and on occasion could still enjoy certain ones, there are two specific types taken along side an eventful evening of sexual pleasure both very different that appeal to me, you can't say that on a dating site, no one admits this of course and surely not everyone on a dating site has never indulged? Any thoughts anyone? oh and out of interest any guys ever dated a female who indulged even if you didnt? xx
- Personally I have never seen a person that has admitted to using drugs?Vote A
- Even if did or currently do, you are not going to say yes considering your profile, dahVote B
- I believe people would be honest about this issue?Vote C
- I believe it gives people to be honest about themselves?Vote D
Most Helpful Guy
Well I prefer honesty myself. Recreational drugs are not really a hobby of mine, but if someone offers I probably won't turn it down unless they don't try to pass me a needle or something hardcore like that. Never bothered with dating sites (with Backpage there's no need) but if I did and it asked such a question I'd put it as I have written it here. I'd be really disappointed if I brought home some girl from one of those sites that I thought was clean and she ends up shooting up in my bathroom. Far more than if she would have simply told me in the first place. To me junkies are bad. Liars are worse. Worse still if they are both.0
Most Helpful Girl
If it is something that you occasionally do or would like to do occasionally then I think you could check the box of not into drugs since there is no box to check that says occasionally or if the moon and stars align properly I may do some drugs. lol!
However, if you are communicating with someone that on their profile says never to drugs or if anything else indicates that they are a never to drugs person, then it is on you to disclose it to them so they can make an informed decision.
That really is what any of these questions on a dating profile are about. Do you want kids or not? Do you want to be in a relationship or not? Etc. We all deserve the right to make an informed decision on who we want to bother with on a dating site.
So it is on you to disclose this to people when it is of consequence to them however you see fit to do so. Just make it known and then it is their decision to continue or not knowing this about you.
Good luck. :)