Not gonna lie, most of us care, some more, some less, and it's also depends on how "big" a girl is and how it' looks not her, I am okey with chubby girls, but if a girl is too fat, lest say that it's not add to worth in my eyes, and she need to have very good personality to try and compensate for that.
usually, yes they care. but my sister is a chubby girl, and she's confident about herself. and she has a lot of guys approaching her as she's funky and happy-go-lucky. so, it's not just about size/weight, it's personality too. you're beautiful when you feel beautiful
In short, yes. But for the longer answer, I guess it depends on in which way you're big, like if you have a really big stomach (just fat) or if you are just curvy. Since you are just 14 I guess it could have to do with puberty, that you are a bit earlier than your friends and have just begun to get more a more "womanly" shape
I don't care about the number in your pants or on the scale, but I care about how it looks. A few extra kg are not a deal breaker, but if someone is clearly overweight then I'm not physically attracted anymore which is needed for a relationship
Most guys will say that they do care, but there are lots of older guys out there who have done the dating, been a player, and fucked around and they are tired of the grind and looking for a good girl to settle with. It's those men who look for quality and personality, not just a hot body. The guy I'm with now is so damned sexy and really great guy. I feel like I've hit the lottery. He's been hurt a lot by women, and he tells me all the time that he is so happy in love with me simply because I'm real. I'm with him, for him. His looks are just a bonus. I'm over 200lbs, but I take care of myself and try to eat right. I've have a ton of medical issues keeping me from being able to really work the weight off, but I stay active and I do lots of outdoors stuff with him.
I've never been thin, I've always been between average or just a little over average. I have large breasts and hips and a smaller waist. My body type isn't for everyone and that's okay, I've always been told by males who like skinny girls that I have a pretty face and it's a shame I'm not thin, but I know I have a nice body too, it's just a personal preference people have to what they like. I know I'm attractive and haven't had a problem attracting men what so ever, you just have to be like, you know what this is me, I love myself and you will attract people who love you too.
Guys and girls are about the same when it comes to preferences. You see we can't really make up our minds. I say I like tall guys but I am really into this guy who is between average and short. It really isn't about specific characteristics. In the end it has a lot to do with how a person makes you feel. If the converstation flows naturally and you don't ruin it by overthinking then there is a spark and things you usually find unattractive become endearing.