I need help- my boyfriend of 7 years broke it off 2 months ago, he broke up with me over a text, and never contacted me again. Off course I was sad depressed confused and miserable without him, as the weeks went on I contacted him to get my belongings back so I went down to his and he gave them to me. He was okay with me asking me loads of questions about me and how I was. He wasn't very nice in his text to me when he dumped me so I was surprised he was even OK with me. The next day I was really upset after seeing him so I texted him and asked him could we ever meet up and talk? His reply was'nah don't think that's ever going to happen' I was hurt and I told him I missed and loved him he said ' it's better for us to not be together' he said he still loved me, I asked him ' is there anything I can do to change your mind please. he said yeah'Get the fu*k over me' I seen on Facebook he uploaded a picture of him and his female friend ( one I never met he wouldn't let me meet her) i said it to him about the picture and he said' I was considering taking you back but now you can fu*k off you ruined your chance yet again by annoying me with my picture of me and my FRIEND.' He was saying 'leave me alone I want you gone out of my life right now your annoying me, idon't mean forever but this moment go' he also said ' it's your own fault for being heartbroken over me sitting there' I said please don't be like this with me, he said ' well stop giving me reasons to be HARSH to you!!!' ( he was mean and angry during our relationship and I always ran back to him tho, now I do regret it I let him treat me like that) so anyways I said okay. And never text him back and he never texted me back. The week before he broke up with me , he stayed with his female friend all day and I was waiting for him to come see me. When I asked him about it he went absolutely crazy and was saying 'leave my friend alone I'll see her if I want' then week later he dumped me.
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Wow, no offence hun but he seems like an ass. He did you favor by breaking up with you. Who breaks up with someone over a text? And his attitude towards you was just vile, there so reason for him to act that way towards you at all. From what I'm getting this guy carelessly dropped you and the relationship most likely because of this other girl. The week before he dumped you he spent all day with her and went you asked about he went nuts over it? Yeah when a guy gets that defensive over you asking a simple question, he's obvious hiding something and is feeling nervous or guilty about it. If this guy truly love you, he wouldn't have broken the relationship off so abruptly. 7 years with someone and you just end like that with no explanation and then you treat them like garbage? Girl you are way better off.. its better that you found out how really felt about you now then a couple more years down the road.1