Just as an alternate example for all you guys out there i lost my virginity to a guy i was on and off with for 2 years at 19. At 20 i met my current boyfriend and we had sex on the first date. Im not that kind of girl at all and he knew that and we've been together for 3 years now. After drinks we went back to his place to talk (i was naive enough to believe that) he worked some serious seduction. I went to pee and was shocked by how wet i was. I went back to him and we made magic. Im super far from a first date sleeperwither but sometimes thats not an indication of her and if its not i have faith that as a man u will b able to c that. Now im 23 and other than my very first time, I've only ever had sex with my boyfriend.
And that being said a loose girl who easily sleeps around should also b identifyable and i respect u guys for seeing it as a res flag.
"I will only have sex with a date on the 3rd, 5th, 10th date."What kind of hogwash is that? By admitting something that stupid is just like saying, I am having sex, but going to make it difficult so I do not appear easy. Also baloney.
The type of person who withholds sex to numbers of dates is the same type person who withholds sex for other deviant reasons like hurt feelings or fogetting an important event. I don't like people like that.
Whatever happened to, "If it feels right?" Sure you could be wrong, but if you are using your gut instinct rather than your hormones you are more likely to be right.
If you belive it is right on the first date then it is. If you don't believe it is right on the first date, it isn't. It is what it is.
The good: I can finally get laid with a girl =) The bad: She is so easy to spread her legs on first dates, which means she could have done that with plenty of guys, not that I am against it but it would be a slight issue for me.
If I didn't know her and got laid right away, I'd be on guard but I do not lose respect.
We are back to this again. It's ok for men and not women to behave like this. Sometimes people you really need to look closer at the person and ask yourself why are they doing it. Some people think that offering themselves to some one is a way of asking for a relationship. Or maybe they want you to like them and think this is the only way they can be liked. There are many different things that happen in someone's life to create who they are. Stop for a second and observe and ask questions before you judge. That person will appreciate this
Since I'm not a guy I'll just answer anyway. If a guy pushes me or even suggests having sex on the first date or had sex with another girl after the first date, 2nd date, or even 3rd date I lose all respect for him. I wish people would stop acting like crazy maniacs over sex. Its just sex sheesh.
I had sex on a first date twice... once it turned out to be 2 and a half year long relationship. Now we´ve hit 3 years. Truth to be told we were friends (or at least knew each other quite well) before that happened.
That wasn't a date then just a hook up
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