Say you have been friends for a few years, you know them pretty well, but aren't like best friends. What do you do if they suddenly ask you out and you're not sure of your feelings towards them? Should you still accept and give it a chance or do you decline thinking that you would have feelings for them by now if it was possible.
I don't want to lead my guy friend on, but I'm not sure if what I feel is only friendship or not.
Most Helpful Guy
Don't jump to an answer here.. really think hard and objectively about it... Was his side of the friendship possibly based on his attraction to you? Or was it purely platonic that has changed on his side. If platonic, it may be salvageable if it goes wrong. If he has always hoped to get together with you this could get messy no matter what. If you say no, he could resent you for not giving him a chance. he may get back in line and be like before, but there will always be part of him that wants you and hates the fact he can't.0
Most Helpful Girl
I was in this boat with my fiance :) we'd been good friends for a few years and he asked me out. I found him attractive and a good person but i really wasn't sure of my feelings. I think if you keep an open mind and communicate with him that you're unsure of your feelings but that you're willing to give it a try to see if it works - then go for it. Love built on friendship is pretty sturdy stuff. I'm not saying you'll get married next week, but there's obviously things about him you like since you're friends with him :)
If he doesn't want to take things slow and see how it'll pan out, then it's not for you and you can get on with life.0