I finally asked a guy out, someone I've been wanting to for a while. I sent him a quick message, made it super casual (nothing creepy, didn't put pressure into a date) and no answer. This was last night and I saw he opened it but he said nothing. Obviously he's not interested but he could have at least told me. 😒
Most Helpful Guy
If it helps!! I told the love of my life through an email (lame I know) and she opened it and then said nothing. Snap chatted me the next day and then didn't talk to me for a year. I felt extremely stupid, miserable and depressed.
But no, don't feel stupid, you tried and that's more than the average girl can say. They usually pine and never ask. You did something courageous. So 👏 For you. He's a dickhead for just leaving you up in the air.
Though next time, I would try in person. 1milkion times scarier but usually it gets better results. Or well, u can at least see the persons reaction and know there interest level instead guessing :).1
Most Helpful Girl
You sound like you're better off without the guy then :)
Although, there could be many reasons for him not replying straightaway. Give him chance, he may respond. Otherwise, send him another message in a few days and tell him thanks for replying! Haha :)1