No set weight. People add weight differently. I'm 5'4" and I think I look more or less the same (went from a 29 waist to 31 / 32 waist) at 145lbs vs. 125 lbs. I'm still trying to figure out "can those 20 lbs really be in those 2-3 inches?
You've also got height to consider.
If it's noticeable, I'd approach the subject VERY carefully since being at the s/o "stage" kinda implies I've had time to get to know her on the inside as well.
Anything over 40 lbs is a bit of a quitter for me.
How do you gain 40 lbs with me right here? I could understand if we separated for a while and she came back fatter. 40 lbs DURING a relationship? Because I'm going to say something after 10 lbs. And the rest is just 30 lbs of spite.
I'm actually surprised by the comments... And you wonder why people have an ED.
My boyfriend has been heavy most of his life but he is the best thing that ever happened to me.
I'm a 5"1 18 year old female I weigh 123lb BMI says I should weigh from 95-110lb
My man weighs in the lower 200 and he is 6"4 I don't give a shit what BMI says he should be. My father thinks I could do better than the guy I'm with. But takeaway I don't have to worry about him being drunk a decking me in the face like my father has.
I think I'm fat by my boyfriend hates it when I say that. He doesn't say anything but kind words to me, he loves me. And if you are in a relationship for the looks only, then you are looking in the wrong place.
My boyfriend is close to my weight, he's 130 while I'm 120, so he can afford to gain 100 without looking too massive xD if the question were reversed (we already discussed this LOL) he said he'd probably stop being *attracted* if I gained 40 or more.
Shame on you men who voted 10-20! 10 pounds on a girl is practically nothing. 20 is just a little cushion.
It was humorous to see the overwhelming majority of men voting for this answer, though!
I'd say anything that puts them at an unhealthy weight or morbidly obese is too much. Overweight is fine, and slightly obese is alright, but I can't date anyone that's unable to walk or stand because of their weight. Also being unable to do simple things like clean the house is a deal breaker. If they weigh 300+ lbs (and it isn't muscle), then I would help them lose it or break up with them.
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