I like a guy, but he smokes marijuana everyday. Is not my intention to change his mind, but is something that I don't agree. He has taken as well LSD, mushrooms, cocaine and many other types of drugs but he says his favourite one is marijuana and he thinks drugs are not bad. He goes to work everyday and apparently have a "normal" lifestyle, but I'm afraid things wouldn't work because we don't think the same way or maybe later I would find out other kind of rare behaviours.
I don't have friends on drugs and I have never been so close to someone with this situation. I don't know what to think. I am confused.
Please excuse my English grammar. I am not a native English speaker.
Yes and it was horrible. Watching someone self destruct is heartbreaking because as much as you want to save them, it's up to them to save themselves. It makes people crazy. I would not recommend travelling that road.
I used to do a lot of drugs and dated girls who also took drugs. I don't do them anymore and I wouldn't date someone who did more than smoke weed. Harder drugs tend to make people do crazy shit, this doesn't include everyone as I always knew what I was doing and acted as responsibly as you can when you're high, but it's true for most people... the chances are that a partner who does a lot of drugs can't really be trusted, so I'd just go for someone who doesn't take them, of which there's enough people in the world to choose from.
I dated someone who did marijuana, I don't know what I was thinking. But if he doesn't act like a dick around you with or without the drug then I suppose it's fine. But in my honest opinion? I'll never ever ever date another guy who does drugs. It's not attractive.
I see no problem with weed. I smoke myself. Sometimes I'll go a month where I smoke almost everyday and sometimes I go months without smoking lol. I've also done a couple kinds of pills and drank and stuff and I'd like to experiment with other drugs just once one day.
I would date someone who's like me in that regard. As long as they aren't high all the time, and only use pot with rare, occasional experiments, that's fine.