I've been dating this guy for almost a year now. Things are getting serious between us. Her mother is throwing a birthday party for his daughter and he's not inviting me to go with him. We always go to invitations and places together as long as our schedules work...
He told me this yesterday and I was surprised and even told him how he didn't even bother asking me. He said he thought I might not want to go, which is crap!!! But he's still going to go without me. He didn't invite me even after I said that.
Im having really hard time processing this. I need help. I wouldn't do that if it was me who's in his place. Why in the world doesn't he want me to go with him?
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It could just be that he doesn't feel it's appropriate. I know people will hate me for saying this but sometimes it isn't.
I don't know how close your are to his kids, if at all, but when it comes to a guy or girl introducing a new partner into their preexisting family unit, it's the comfort of the family first that is taken into consideration. He might feel awkward about having you around his ex, his kids, and the family, and may just be trying not to step on anyone's toes or push boundaries.
If it bothers you that much just ask him directly what his reasoning is.0