Who paid for the first date? and other dates?
There's been a lot of discussion about who should pay for dates, so I'm asking... what is the rule in your current or past relationships that you've actually been in?
Most Helpful Guy
I pay pretty much every time, except for once when the girl really was taking offense to my not allowing her to go dutch. I'm a gentleman so I pick up the tab, especially on a first date. But I pay very close attention to the girls who at least make the offer/effort to grab the tab or go half. It lets me know a lot about her character/personality. Generally, while I won't ever complain about paying I haven't asked a girl out for a second date if she doesn't even offer. I don't care how hot she is or how much money she comes from. I just don't like girls who are assuming or too old fashioned about things like that.2
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Most Helpful Girl
The guy I'm dating and I always went dutch until we started dating. Then we would either split or pay-and-reciprocate.4