We're both college students but her folks pay for her stuff, I pay for my own. I really like her but she has never had a job and from the way she talks it sounds like she does not have any work ethic. Were both college students with different majors but I'm just not sure if I want to get into a relationship where I'm the only one with a job in the for see able future. I don't doubt that she will eventually get into her field but how long will that take and she does not want to get a job now. All of the ones that I suggested around us she has rejected or forgot about. I don't mind if she will be a stay at home mother latter but before that I would like us both to have an income. I'm currently working a full time job while I finish up my degree.
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It's not wrong, it's a mature and well-thought out reason not to date. Plus women refuse to date men for this same reason all the time.1