We're both college students but her folks pay for her stuff, I pay for my own. I really like her but she has never had a job and from the way she talks it sounds like she does not have any work ethic. Were both college students with different majors but I'm just not sure if I want to get into a relationship where I'm the only one with a job in the for see able future. I don't doubt that she will eventually get into her field but how long will that take and she does not want to get a job now. All of the ones that I suggested around us she has rejected or forgot about. I don't mind if she will be a stay at home mother latter but before that I would like us both to have an income. I'm currently working a full time job while I finish up my degree.
Someone in college, who have their folks pay for everything, does not need to get a job. There's nothing wrong with being a full time student. That said you don't have to date anyone you don't want to.
Honestly you are smart. A lot of guys will date bum ass girls just because they're cute and later on if she gets pregnant or something, complain that she's a gold digger. lol all that stress and drama could have been avoided if they had the foresight like you do in the beginning.
Someone who has work ethic and someone who doesn't have it are not equally yoked. It would be ok if she was a stay at home mom, sure but y'all dont have any kids so why is she not able to work? You should at least have a girl who is on the same wavelength as you.
Dont feel bad, she'll find a guy who doesn't care about her unemployment and you will find a woman who works.
I can't stand people who have mommy and daddy buy them everything. Im putting myself through university and im doing alright. I would never use money from my mom. How do people just go to college to get a career but never worked a day in their life? She seems like she will leech off you. Sorry. You seem like a really nice guy and Id hate for you to get into a slump because of her sillyness.
You are only in college and you are projecting a negative attitude toward somebody you don't even know that well. I did have a job in college I studied. See what develops. You can data and find out what she wants a life but to dismiss someone because they don't have a job when they're in college is premature
It's not bad, especially if she doesn't have any work ethic. I don't see anything wrong with not wanting to work during college, if your parents can pay it, then it's better if you just stick to school and not have any other possible distractions. But having no work ethic is not good at all.
This girl does not meet your expectations now. What makes you think she ever will do anything different than be a daddy's little girl? She does not need to work, nor does she need to take your suggestions. This girl may be a friend, but I would not plan a future around her.