Not only is my husband about 3 inches shorter than me, but... now that I think about it... I've actually never been super intensely attracted to a man taller than me.
Yes, you read that right. No, I didn't write that backwards.
(Remember, I'm 6'2"... so that's only ruling out, like, 5-10 percent of guys. That'd be a hell of a statement if I was 5'2"!)
See, I'm way more about the body than about the face -- and the kinds of bodies that make me hot are almost exclusively on boys in the 5'6"-5'11" range.
What I like best could be vaguely described as "Take a compact, sinewy street scrapper boy, and put about 10-20 extra lbs of oh fuck yesssss on him from throwing around heavy things."
That sort of look -- the kind of physique that's both dense and powerful, but is still lithe, smooth, and can move with a surprising quickness -- isn't really something you find on guys over 6'. Almost invariably, taller guys are either too lanky/wiry for my tastes, or else too soft/fat.
(I know, I know... Picky bitch, right)
Also, if we're being honest here, I like the sexual dynamic better with a guy who's a little shorter than me.
See, I need to be "taken in hand" sexually -- and you damn well bet I'm gna fight it 💋💋 ... and that whole dynamic is MUCH hotter, and more "honest", when I'm the one with the height advantage.
See, that kind of sexual dominance is purest and most thrilling when it comes from a guy who has NONE of the qualities that society associates with "power by default".
• Shorter than me,
• Not rich (oh if I even had the words for how much I'm turned off by men who throw money around),
• Not in a "power position" (men in uniform... another giant turn-off. Except firefighters. I luuuvvv firefighters... precisely because they're the only men-in-uniform who DON'T have default power over anyone.)
When a guy like *that* can just... put me in my place -- instinctually and effortlessly -- ahhh sweet fucking fuck that's the hottest thing in the world.