Guys I've dated are constantly telling me how "hot, sexy, beautiful etc" I am.. but the thing is I feel like that's all guys see me as.
I am educated, nice, and have a lot more qualities to offer other than my looks but I feel like the only type of guys I attract are guys who just want to sleep with me. I don't dress overly provocative or anything either and I have just reached a point in my life where I want something real..
What do I do?
Most Helpful Guy
I'm not sure about the guys you have dated but for me it is really easy to compliment a women on her looks because she does not usually show off her intelligence or when she does I don't think to compliment her on it. It seems odd to compliment her on her personality and character except in a letter or flirty note.
I think that the girls that I flirt with would agree with you. That I'm only after their body but I'm not. I was just taught that you compliment a women on her body and on her mind when she shows it off. Once in a while I do tell her that she has a great personality and character through.0
Most Helpful Girl
Most people don't see past a person's exterior until they get to know them personally.
I'm initially attracted to a guys appearance , but it's his personality that I fall in love with. It's difficult getting to the stage of knowing someone's personal qualities , because it usually ends before you can get to that stage
The guys who just want to use you for sex are not wanting a committed relationship. So they aren't interested in getting to know you on a personal level
Not all guys just want sex, it's just unfortunate the ones you meet do. You will meet someone who falls in love with your heart and soul , who will view your beauty as just a bonus. It'll happen unexpectedly at a time when you least expect it